Maybe I'm Just Not Into You...

Last night was the date with FAREB. If I had to summarize it in one sentence, I would say that I don't think we'll be seeing each other anymore.

Brief overview of the date: we went to the movies and saw Disturbia. Pretty good movie if you like thrillers.

I think its safe to say that I don't think FAREB is that interested in getting to know me. We made small talk during the ride to and from the theater, and all he talked about was himself. Namely, how he was going to trade in his Infiniti truck for a Mercedes two seater, how he can't wait to get new furniture for his loft apartment, and how he was going to have a crackin' ass birthday party next month. *Yawn* The only time he seemed really interested in anything I had to say was when it pertained to why I wasn't all over him. Yes, he seriously said that to me.

When he drove me back to my car we hugged, and he said to me, "You know, I'm starting to question the chemistry between us."

"Why?" I asked. "Is it because I'm not all over you trying to hump your leg?" (I was being sarcastic.)

"Well...yea," he said.

"Are you seriously used to women who are all over you?" I said.

"Yea. I think its strange that you're not."

"Well, I don't know any other way to say this than to say that I don't operate like that. We've only gone out on two dates and spent time together a total of three times. I don't think that warrants too much physical contact. Plus, I'm not the type of person who is going to be all over someone I don't really know. I don't sweat anyone."

I was met with a blank look. So I said, "Well I'm going to let you marinate on that. Have a good night."

I called him when I got home to let him know I made it and he didn't answer. Nor did he call me back at all today. I don't think I'm going to hear from him again.

That's fine with me. Last night I realized that I didn't really like FAREB. Sure he's hot and successful, but he has the personality of a bag o' nickels. His attitude detracts from his looks and I found myself becoming less and less attracted to him the more I got to know him. I don't even want to do him anymore because he kept asking me why I wasn't on his jock. He may have been able to get it if he would have stopped asking for it. He needs a woman who is going to continuously tell him how great he is, who has no self esteem of her own and who spends all her time showering him with attention.

I hope he finds what he's looking for.

Peace.