Superficial...So?

With the dating market so tough, one has to really sit and ponder. What things are absolutely non-negotiable when it comes to a mate? It is so hard to find the right person, so when you meet someone who has most of the qualities you are looking far, its hard to dismiss that person for seemingly superficial reasons.

I have been guilty of letting a few good ones slip away. I remember I was dating a guy several years ago who was super nice, sweet, successful, handsome, generous, and we had a good time together. He was an overall great guy. "Why did you stop dating him?" you may ask. Well, he had a small penis. Thats a big issue for me (no pun intended). I'm not saying that my potential bed buddy needs to be hung like Mr. Marcus, but damn, if your penis looks like a Vienna sausage your chances of hittin' it are minimal.

But I digress. Sometimes I'm guilty of not giving guys a chance because they may be too short, too light, too skinny, or because he is or is aspiring to be a RAW (rapper, actor, or whatever). I could be missing out on a lot of great guys because I am weeding them out. And it doesn't have to always lead to romance, I may also be missing out on the opportunity to make new friends.

The easy response would be just to say I will open myself up a little more. I'll try. I can't make any promises though.